feat: Change live query templating to reflect controller semantics

[sjbodzo]

Upstream of the templating, at the next domain layer for the existing Change Data Capture system, there are specific naming semantics that the Live Query controllers expect.

This templating change brings the Helm chart templates inline with what those controllers expect to prevent edge case bugs.

Related components of the CDC are updated to incorporate recent edits as well.

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 big-peer => (version: "0.2.18", path: "charts/big-peer")
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Linting chart "big-peer => (version: \"0.2.18\", path: \"charts/big-peer\")"
Checking chart "big-peer => (version: \"0.2.18\", path: \"charts/big-peer\")" for a version bump...
Old chart version: 0.2.17
New chart version: 0.2.18
Chart version ok.
Validating /__w/helm-charts/helm-charts/charts/big-peer/Chart.yaml...
Validation success! 👍

### Chart [ big-peer ] charts/big-peer


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==> Linting charts/big-peer
[INFO] Chart.yaml: icon is recommended

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 ✔︎ big-peer => (version: "0.2.18", path: "charts/big-peer")
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