feat: dry running query planner

[lleadbet]

Description

Duplicating #5826 to more easily rebase. This just copies the code needed for the change (specifically the plugin changes). All work done by @lennyburdette and @aaronArinder - I'm just helping get this across the line.

This PR adds a new dry-run option to the Apollo-Expose-Query-Plan header value that emits the query plans back to Studio for visualizations. This new value will only emit the query plan, and abort execution. This can be helpful for tools like rover, where query plan generation is needed but not full runtime, or for potentially prewarming query plan caches out of band.

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Checklist

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• Changes are compatible¹
• Documentation² completed
• Performance impact assessed and acceptable
• Tests added and passing³
  • Unit Tests
  • Integration Tests
  • Manual Tests

Exceptions

None; this is net new functionality.

Notes

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[router-perf]

CI performance tests

• connectors-const - Connectors stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• const - Basic stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• demand-control-instrumented - A copy of the step test, but with demand control monitoring and metrics enabled
• demand-control-uninstrumented - A copy of the step test, but with demand control monitoring enabled
• enhanced-signature - Enhanced signature enabled
• events - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED
• events_big_cap_high_rate - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity
• events_big_cap_high_rate_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity using callback mode
• events_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED in callback mode
• events_without_dedup - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED
• events_without_dedup_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED using callback mode
• extended-reference-mode - Extended reference mode enabled
• large-request - Stress test with a 1 MB request payload
• no-tracing - Basic stress test, no tracing
• reload - Reload test over a long period of time at a constant rate of users
• step-jemalloc-tuning - Clone of the basic stress test for jemalloc tuning
• step-local-metrics - Field stats that are generated from the router rather than FTV1
• step-with-prometheus - A copy of the step test with the Prometheus metrics exporter enabled
• step - Basic stress test that steps up the number of users over time
• xlarge-request - Stress test with 10 MB request payload
• xxlarge-request - Stress test with 100 MB request payload

[lleadbet]

closing this in favor of #6656 as it is now running on a branch within this repository vs. a fork.