[BugFix] Fix stale mem flush not reduce load memory usage

[meegoo]

Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
🔵	be/src/storage/async_delta_writer.cpp	0	1	00.00%	[87]
🔵	be/src/storage/delta_writer.cpp	0	4	00.00%	[536, 537, 538, 539]
🔵	be/src/storage/lake/delta_writer.cpp	7	7	100.00%	[]
🔵	be/src/storage/lake/async_delta_writer.cpp	1	1	100.00%	[]