Support include/exclude options from import-in-the-middle

[cjpearson]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

import-in-the-middle supports providing a list of modules to include or exclude from hooking

import * as module from 'module'

// Exclude intercepting a specific module by name
module.register('import-in-the-middle/hook.mjs', import.meta.url, {
  data: { exclude: ['package-i-want-to-exclude'] }
})

// Only intercept a specific module by name
module.register('import-in-the-middle/hook.mjs', import.meta.url, {
  data: { include: ['package-i-want-to-include'] }
})

Describe the solution you'd like

This feature depends on the initialize function being registered, but it is not re-exported by the OpenTelemetry wrapper of hook.mjs.

Describe alternatives you've considered

It's also possible to use 'import-in-the-middle/hook.mjs' directly and skip '@opentelemetry/instrumentation/hook.mjs'.