Remove alpha flags from values and add conditional checks before setting flags through helm

[JaydipGabani]

To avoid setting alpha flags through helm during upgrades or install accidently, we should remove alpha flags from values.yaml and add a check to set the flag only when the variable is passed through values.

For reference #3481

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