ext_proc does not honour HeaderAppendAction

[davidjumani]

Title: ext_proc does not honour HeaderAppendAction

Description:

What issue is being seen? Describe what should be happening instead of

When running envoy with the ext_proc filter and pointing to a server that returns header mutation, envoy does not honour the AppendAction field but only the deprecated Append field as mentioned in the HeaderValueOption docs.
Despite setting AppendAction to any supported value, envoy only overwrites the existing header or appends to it if append is true.

This is because the relevant code change is yet to be made in ext_proc despite the updated API
Link to the code that only checks the value of append

ext_proc server snippet :

func returnResponse(key string, value string, appendAction HeaderValueOption_HeaderAppendAction) *service_ext_proc_v3.HeadersResponse {
	return &service_ext_proc_v3.HeadersResponse{
		Response: &service_ext_proc_v3.CommonResponse{
			HeaderMutation:  &service_ext_proc_v3.HeaderMutation{
				SetHeaders: []*core_v3.HeaderValueOption{
					{
						Header: &core_v3.HeaderValue{
							Key: key, 
							RawValue: []byte(value)
						},
						AppendAction: appendAction,	
	                                        // Append: &wrapperspb.BoolValue{Value: true},
					},
				},	
			},
		},
	}
}

[KBaichoo]

cc @tyxia @yanjunxiang-google

[jewertow]

I fixed the same issue in ext_authz some time ago, so I could take it if no one is working on it yet.

[tyxia]

@jewertow sure please go ahead thanks