Add version checking to FFI crate

[timsaucer]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

This came up as part of this PR: #13823

As the FFI crate evolves we need some way to verify across the FFI boundary the version compatibility.

Describe the solution you'd like

Likely we need to add a function that is a simple version output in datafusion-ffi so that users can query across the boundary and verify the versions of the API are compatible.

Describe alternatives you've considered

None I can think of.

Additional context

No response

[alamb]

I likely don't really understand FFI yet, but I think what is needed is that the FFI bindings used match the version of DataFusion that will use the TableProvider

SO in this case if we merge #13823 prior to releaseing 0.44.0 it will mean anyone who wants to use their table provider in 0.44 via FFI will hvae to update the FFI bindings. So to use a TableProvider based on DataFusion 43 someone will have to implement the DataFusion 44 bindings by calling the DataFusion 43 provider